Friday, July 19, 2013

When life resumes....Summer!

Humbleberry Picking

"...Stay on the shady side of the bush...."
I suggest, "pick underneath, down low."
"It's sooo HOT, Mamma!"
"There aren't even ANY berries."
"Can we go, NOW?"

I peer into my slowly filling mesh bucket, and silently agree with my swarming kids.
After a month-long sojourn visiting national parks, we returned home hoping we hadn't missed Blueberry Season.  I had established an hour as the time frame for today's outing, knowing that some of the kids would tire in far less time. Twenty minutes of gleaning revealed a paltry harvest even accounting for the  berries dropped by two year old Benny.  Except to taste for a bush's desirablity, none of us munched many. This wasn't the year for perpetual sampling: maybe Blueberry Season, wasn't, this year; maybe it rained too much while we were gone;  maybe we missed them. 

 "Perhaps we should return in a few days," I encourage the kids.  I think of the forecast: Sun!  Three days of Carolina sun!.  I promise to research how long it takes red berry bunches to ripen into a sweet purple-blue. We daydream of stripping clumps of grape-sized berries, into our awaiting buckets, and mouths. 

I call to my daughter over the 6 ft high bushes,  that form the row I patiently harvest. "Everybody should berry pick!  Keeps you close to nature!  Reality, you know..."  I can't tell if she hears me, and it really doesn't matter.  Aside from pea-sized berries, I relish the authenticity of my experience.  Seasonal picking gifts more fruit than one could ever bake into pies or cobblers or buckles! 

I savor the humility of awaiting nature's timing.  Whenever the berries "come in" depends on forces external to people.  I love it!  We must wait, with excitement:  wonder and awe!  God works his miracle, fattening and  ripening  the fruit,  presenting His gift to those who treasure the ritual that binds them to the humus.  "....Human, from dust you came and unto the dirt you shall return....!"  In this primordial annual dance, we become Children of the Earth, clay recepticles for the Potter's fruit, shaped by the whirling forces of nature He spun in motion.  

I ponder the gift of receiving what each bush offers.  Regardless of whines or wishes, the bush dictates the quantity and quality of the berries.  I empathize with my kids, yet motivtate them to spot the berries hidden, deep within the shrub.  "Look here! This is a FAT one!" My rising second grader runs over.  "Wow Mom!"  She picks it for herself, asking if I want to taste it.   Jeaslously she notices my half-full basket, and plunks herself on the berry stained grass.  Picking low.  After an hour, her berries more than cover the bucket's bottom.  She proudly tops off my gallon, gifting me with tens of blueberries, and redberries, with a few greenies thrown in as a promise!

Berry picking binds me to my littlenes.  A creature, I live seasonal harmony along with the birds and deer who pluck blueberries beneath the master's watch.   No person creates a flower, or pollinates it, forming the bulb that, in time, becomes a blueberry!  Seasonal harvesting of semi-wild berries provides one of the few experiences left that roots me as a creature of an omnicient God.  His rules apply.  I must humbly acceed if I desire the opportunity to taste delights.  Regardless of my harvest, I celebrate the experience of unity with nature and her Creator.    I share the joy of living free and wild with my kids.  A child myself of God who gives, just enough,  I'm thankful, simply  appreciative that any berries awaited our enthusiastic fingers!

Careful not to spill any, we pour berries into communal buckets.  At $7.00/gallon,  I write a check to the familiar name for $21.00.  I don't tack on a few extra bucks for the "field meal", since we tasted only a handful of blueberries.   Somebody knocks over a mesh bucket in the car. Some "blue gold" rolls away.  I, soothingly instruct the kids to pick them up one at a a time.  The teen-aged daughter notices hair and other flecks on the car floor and tosses the berries out, onto the green field.  Perhaps another family will view them as a harbinger of an excellent harvest, or the birds will get them, or they'll nurture next year's crop.

As we drive away, I reassure the gang of nine,  "It's okay, guys! Together we've got enough for muffins and pancakes!" Later I notice, a small bowl of the plumpest, deep blue berries set aside.  I suppose we've picked enough for a friend or two! I'd better set some aside for my honey as well!P


Saturday, July 13, 2013

Debriefing

Logistical changes:  things that maybe I shouldn't have taken with us.

Crock pot:  Good idea, but one that  didn't work out like I thought.  Our first, okay our only, attempt at using it probably blew the fuse in one cigarette outlet.  The nacho cheese dip was good, but not THAT good.  Also, we had NO room for a sizzling pot on anybody's lap, as the pictures showed.  Next, none of our campsites had electricity, so that didn't work out well either.  Finally, even if the circumstances in the car were different eg: two fully functioning outlets, and leg room, I never knew when I'd pull into a location.  This was a WORKING vacation!  A price was paid, usually to a restaurant, or we ate peanut butter and jelly.

50lbs of canned food:  Guess, what?  Contrary to the rumors,  grocery stores exist outside of the Carolinas!!  Lesson:  BUY IT ALONG THE WAY!!  

 Keureg Single Serve Pot: and a full box of pods!  The jury is still out on this equipment!  We did use it in the bathrooms--where there was power-- at Grand Canyon, Redwoods, and Yellowstone,  (so about 11/30 mornings)  and lots of ladies were jealous of us, but it took up one of five bins on the roof!  Decisions...Could I risk missing my morning "Joe"?  I could've made it the old fashioned way in a camping coffee pot, over the Colman stove, like I'd done in the past.  That's probably what I'll do in the future!  The pot is big, but not as HUGE as the Keureg and 50 pods!

"Space Bagging" our Clothes:  Bags fell apart and then we had Way too many shirts, shorts, long pants, shirts!!!! We did laundry, wore our clothes, over and over, so we didn't go through as many outfits as I thought.  Plus, the weather was unseasonably hot in the mountains, and we didn't need all the long pants, blah, blah.... I planned as best as I could, but Man!!   Clothes take up a lot of space!

Books:  bags and bags of books!  Plus, I insisted on kids bringing school work.  (was I insane?)  The workbooks are in shreds next to the journals.  Harry Potter Book 3, now comes in 3 sections, not counting loose pages.  I'm a book junkie, so like with the coffee, I couldn't risk the kids driving a single mile wordless!

Souvenirs:  nah!  I retract that!  they do take up space, but the tee shirts and coffee cups tell our story.  They're story starters for many more years. Plus, and here's my secret, you can MAIL them home!!! 

When all is said and done, I think we needed a bigger van!!! Much bigger!  I can't see how we could have packed  less....Originally, I had envisioned hitching a trailer up, but John thought that would be cumbersome.  I do agree.  CA has a 70 MPH speed limit for cars, but a 55 MPH for cars that tow. Plus, how could I park a VAN with a trailer anywhere?? (Roof top parking lots in LA and San Francisco, parallel parking in Santa Fe at a meter.  And I've heard, that trailers don't handle hairpin curves on cliff edges well!  Our two car-top carriers handled weather and parking garage bumps well.  Thanks to John for researching which ones to buy (after REI originally said our van couldn't support a carrier) I'd recommend a Yakima hard carrier, forget the shiny automobile finish for $200 more!  The soft carrier, a Sherpa (?), was perfect too.  Nothing!! Nothing! got wet, or fell out!  Not once!

Next year, when I've gathered my gumption again, maybe you'll see the Silver Whale parked in the driveway and My Lovely Self, parked in the front seat of a Winnebago heading...heading...heading...out! 

next post...and I AM getting closer to finally closing this blog out, will be on what worked out!

Muchas Gracias!

Some folks deserve a huge shout out for their essential support for our journey!

First:  God for giving us every good gift to see us down, around, up, and over, until we returned safely home!

.....Where we can enjoy each other in the comfort of our own pool!

Next person:
My terrific husband!  John encouraged this journey from its inception!  He suffered being alone (?) for two weeks without us, as well.  And, and this is a huge AND he has worked extremely hard and smart in order to financially support us, and me, as I lavishly spent our resources on camp grounds with flush toilets, and showers...!

Moving on:
My in-laws, Karen and Bob Peterson who cared for our puppies with love for two weeks!
   Two dogs, 2 weeks!  Now that's a lot of walks!
Karen, along with Katie, cleaned some pretty nasty spaces (think boys' closet and bathroom) in the house too! Folded towels, tens of them, greeted me, having been stacked by Karen in the linen closet (The kids didn't even know we had one!) Thanks guys! Without you watching Minnie and Zeus we couldn't have gone away!

Zeus


Brian with Minnie


Snail Mail still exists, and my mom drove over to the other house to collect it....bills must be paid! (thanks mom (?) Also, the balloons and meals upon our arrival smoothed the transition to "real" life.

Works still goes on!  John's amazing staff at Peterson Law Firm:  Wendy, Nickie, and Beverly worked diligently so John could have peace of mind during his first extended vacation in years!!!  Thanks ladies!  I truly appreciate you!  Also, Don Harper, John's partner for many years, stepped up to the plate as the closing attorney so Peterson Law Firm could continue serving the Fort Mill community.  His dedicated and professional help was a true gift!  Many thanks, Don.

Our neighbors, The Lais Brothers, who mowed our lawn, just because, deserve a "shout out" too!  Thanks guys!

Katie, my lovely daughter, who turns 23 today!  "Thanks Rosalita for taking care of Dad while we were gone! ...and the house and refrigerator look amazing!"

Family extends a continent: Laura, John's sister, and the two Charlie Humphries!  Thanks for opening your home to us with love and fun!  (In DALLAS, TX)

Thanks to Kate and Ken Warren, Katie's godparents, who welcomed us with a lovely dinner and much desired friendship in Phoenix!

Norman, thanks for your hospitality in Phoenix as well!  Ah!  A real house to sleep in !!

Peter and Alden Egan:  We loved apartment living for ONE NIGHT!  Thanks for the homemade yogurt, too.  I'll begin my new hobby tomorrow!

To all the characters along the way:  you are America!  You are good!  To the woman in Phoenix who lead us to the highway!  Thanks for showing us the way!  To the waitresses who brought steaming dishes and encouraging words, I raise my glass to you! To the vineyard guy, thanks for praying for Nick!  And I have prayed for your mother in law too! To the Alaskan family traveling the country: safe travels. You're welcome to settle in Charlotte!  (I know a good real estate attorney!) To America's First People: the Navajo teen excited about her handmade jewelry in the  Chee Gift Shop, AZ; the Hopi college kid in Santa Fe; to the Shoshone- Bannock owner/worker in the tribal service station in Idaho, your grace, peace, simplicity inspires me.  To the proud papa of baseball champs in Idaho, who I met poolside at a Days Inn:  Yep!  All parents are the same, we love our kids! Thanks to Jacob Muir at the Chicago Museum of Science and Industry for working hard to provide a pleasant environment within the beautiful facility.  To the nameless, beautiful individuals and families who unwittingly accompanied us, YOU enriched this sojourn with your stories, your lives, your presence.  Nature bequeaths serenity, wonder, harmony, but not shared experiences and meaning.  Nature acts as a metaphor for the relationships formed over a lifetime with brothers and sisters of the same Father.  I feel, in ways, like the Texas tumbleweed among you.  As I rolled across the highways, bits of you gathered in the sticky outcroppings of my soul.  You're there still.  Thank you for giving of yourselves to me, a stranger no more, but a fellow citizen separated by a few boundaries on the map!

Prayer warriors!  I may never know who you are, but GOD does!!  Thank you for praying us through rainstorms in TN, around hairpin, on-the-edge curves in CA, during long hours of too-getherness in car rides along interstates in NV, SD, MN.....Thanks for all your support!  Thanks, too for following our journey!  Knowing fans were in the stands, encouraged me to become my best self!  Also, I believe I had a duty to "do it well" in honor of everybody who vicariously joined us!

Thanks to my kids: Brian (21), Kirsten (19), Rebekah (17), Johnny (15), Michael (13), Lydia (11), 
Luke (9), Grace (7), Annaliese (5), Benny (2).  Love of you inspired this journey. Without you, to whom would I give the gift of America the Beautiful?!  What joy I experienced sharing my beloved country with the people I love most in the world; YOU and Dad!  Family life continues, with all of its opportunities to "grow in wisdom and in grace". Thanks for your sacrifice:  the sharing of chargers, Starbursts, Camelbaks,  pillows, mattresses, Oreos, air, space, time, patience, independence........   As Pope John Paul II said, "The family is a School of Love".  Yes, "classrooms" of love emerged during this trip!  Yet, the indelible marker of shared experiences will continue writing this story, our memoir, over birthday dinners, Thanksgiving feasts, or when we're gathered at some hall, that suddenly becomes "Memory Hall"! 

Thanks to the weather for--mostly--cooperating!  

Thanks to the pilots for John's and Brian's safe flights!

Thanks to the other drivers on the highway for driving responsibly.

Thanks to cooks, clerks, cleaners, the unseen.....

Thanks to nature for being.  Just BEING.

Thanks to our tent for not leaking too much!

Thanks to our bodies for good health!

Thanks to the Silver Whale, my van!  Over 8200 miles without a single hesitation!


I end as I began: the Alpha and the Omega! 

 Thanks to the Trinitarian God for all of the above.  May God bless each of you richly, and may God remember anybody I forgot in the above tribute!

                                      Receive life as gift....Spend your days opening presents

Day I, Friday

The girls and I started our day at mass praying for Nick 
Andrade, our dear friend who underwent a complicated surgery yesterday in NJ to splice his nerves together, potentially allowing him to breathe on his own without a ventilator.  Nick, who suffered a SCI in Sept after a diving accident, traveled within our hearts for the last 30 days.  We love Nick and miss him terribly!  

Wherever I went I thought, "Oh!  Nick can come here!"  or "This is wheel-chair accessible!"  Honestly, I appraised most of our venues with Nick in mind!  I saw Nick sitting, gazing across Lake Michigan, its breeze filling him with hope and life!  Nick will marvel at the immensity of Grand Canyon!  God's power and might, calling to him, "I'm with you!  I'm here in the depths of the Canyon.  A river flows through you, carving a new you!  You are beautiful as you become....trust in me!"  Nick we will trust in Him for you until the boulders in your life catch the rising waters.  Rapids form, challenging to traverse, yes, but we will paddle with you! You are loved!  I thought of Nick cringing at the acrid stench of sulphur at Yellowstone's Hot springs, just like we did! I saw him eating Chicago style pizza, and saying, "It's good, right?!"  Nick, I really missed you.  All of this traveling, and seeing, and receiving 
mean nothing, without loved ones at the road's end!  See you soon, my young friend!

After mass we returned stuff at South Park, where my adrenaline crashed.  I returned home and slept for 4 hours!  


At night I sorted gifts of the road, read a few thank you notes, ate peach pie, and headed to bed.  I dreamt of a clean van and laundry washed and folded, and put away!

......one can dream..........


actually we've made great progress!  until later



Friday, July 12, 2013

Catching up on what we missed!

Girls watching Tiger and loving their pups!
Granny Lou's Chicken Catticatori
John's guitar wouldn't fit in the car!

John playing the country song Wagon Wheel
Wheels on the Bus with the kids!!!

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Last Leg: Songs and Slow Wheels

Every "Southern Pride"  and "Country Strong" song we could think of blasted us into South Carolina this afternoon, around 4 PM! 

Big Green Tractor
Dirt Road Anthem
Flyover States
Southern Voice


My adrenaline began to rush with the verdant blanket draped over The Smokies, My Mountains! Their lushness, enveloped me with love for my Southern Home!  The starkness of western mountains is beautiful.  Their geographical features, fascinating. However, there's something about TREES!  

The Tree of Life
Peach Trees
Swinging Trees
Shade Trees
....meet me under the Apple Tree.trees....

As the driver today,  I --wisely-- refrained from taking pictures and blogging!  Therefore, photos of "vistas" of  beautiful Carolina won't appear on this blog.  But, I noted brown rivers cascading wildly over boulders, and rocky outcroppings peaking between trees high above me.  The clouds hung low on the peaks, adding to their smoky-blue appearance.  

Thirty days ago we began our trip by stopping an hour out of Rock Hill at Strawberry Hill, our favorite peach/strawberry stand along I-85 in Gaffney.  (Katie went to Clemson with Bethaney Cooley, daughter of the farmer.  We're loyal because the homemade ice cream is amazing!)  On our westward journey out, we bought half a bushel of peaches and a pie, and squeezed them into our van as gifts to John's sister, Laura, in Dallas.  We were SQUISHED!  But I kept telling the kids, "a gift is only as valuable as the sacrifice and love with which it was given." Hysterically, my brother-in-law greeted US with his own bushel and 3 watermelons!  We bought peaches and a pie again today.  And guess what John bought yesterday at Springs Peach Stand:  PEACHES!! ....but no pie!!  Ha! Ha!

At York, SC, about 20 minutes out, American Pride songs carried us home, and my wheels slowed.  Tears streamed down my face as the Red, White, and Blue streamed through the music.

Made in America:  Toby Keith
America the Beautiful:  Miranda Lambert and Blake Shelton
Battle Hymn of the Republic....blaring....with windows down, wind blowing my hair.  I wanted to feel America in the last two miles of my 8200 mile journey.
God Bless America:  the song we sang as we departed 30 days ago, accompanied us into Huntington.  Yes God has blessed this country.  And he blessed us, immeasurably.

Unbeknownst to the kids, I did slow our van down along the final highway:  Hwy SC-161.
Despite the 100 plus hours we drove, and squabbled, we loved each other and our country: together!

                                                I GAVE MY KIDS AMERICA!!!

                     WE DID IT!!!  WE REALLY DID! WITH GOD'S GRACE!!!!

Something great just happened in the lives of the Petersons, therefore, something great happened to my beloved America as well.  For, we are one! 

I Feel like a patriotic duty has been discharged vis-a-vis my kids!  I have tried to help them process all they've received, and will continue to do so.  Their own amazing minds and hearts will do the rest and repackage my and John's gift for other people:  their friends, their future children........

The completion of this journey, which began with a dream years ago, became a goal 6 years ago, and began as a single mile through my neighborhood, deserves tears, patriotic songs, kids belting out 
God Bless America, and a slowed odometer as we traversed the final miles.   

My neighborhood silent, unaware of our going or our coming, welcomed us home none-the-less.  I waved at a lone American Flag stuck in the potting soil surrounding a mailbox.  I circled my cul-de-sac, waving at my mom, who had placed balloons on our mailbox!  We rushed out to kiss her, and helped her bring in the Southwest Chicken she cooked for dinner.

Over the course of the evening we baled out the car, I began to de-stink the cooler, sent mail flying and bills whizzing electronically through the web!  Finally, I tucked Ben in, and John tucked Ben in, and Annaliese tucked Ben in, and........God only knows where he is now!!!

I enjoyed a piece of pie, while John and Brian sorted through the 5 million pictures of Redwoods taken with his 10 billion $$ camera....they are beautiful though!

Now,  I'm about to close down this blog.  I'll add a few reflections as I think of them over the ensuing days, and you'll see the aftermath--clean up process--but, this beautiful sojourn, this blessed tour into the heart of America has ended, for now.........
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Benny laid down this morning after we had packed up.  He's been a trooper!  He asked my mom tonight, "Where are you sleeping tonight?!"  (the floor, a tent, a hotel, the car...)



Last leg....still smiling!!

Setteled in !!  Back to normal!!  I did dishes tonight!
That's all folks!!


Lights out!!

Home sweet peaches home!

Home sweet peaches home!

I've driven 8200 miles just to return to Strawberry Hill for delicious strawberry and blackberry ice cream...but I'm not sharing